I didn’t even realize it at first. It was a slow, quiet thing. One day, I was posting stories, commenting, and feeling like I was part of something. Then, for one minute, I was sitting there staring at my phone, frozen at the thought of posting anything at all. My mind was filled with noise, yet in my feed, there was silence.
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The Pressure To Keep Up
We’ve all heard it—be consistent, appear every day, remain seen. And, of course, they’re all valid, provided you’re utilizing social media to uphold your business. However, nobody mentions what doing all of that does to your energy. Not your time, but joy. Your creativity dries up under all the pressure to produce.
When Sharing Is A Performance
There is some odd border zone between being on and being online. I think I’d crossed it when I’d begun posting what I thought I ought to, as opposed to what I actually cared about. I was more interested in what was likely to “work” than what felt like me. I was no longer enjoying any of it.
Stepping Back, Just a Little
So I quit. Not dramatically. No grand exit. I just stopped. Removed the apps from my phone. Give myself some space. I even quit posting about video marketing and just went back to posting the things I enjoyed to share again. Not to build my following. Because it felt right.
Small Changes That Made A Difference
I realize not everyone is able to take time off entirely, and neither was I. But here’s what worked for me. I muted accounts that instigated comparison, not due to them but because I needed some space. I ceased responding immediately. That sense of urgency? All fabricated. I wondered to myself, “Would I share this even if no one is going to see it?” If the response was positive, I posted.
Reconnecting to What Counts
The more I concentrated on how I felt after posting (rather than how well it performed), the better. I recalled why I enjoyed sharing in the beginning: connection, creativity, and lightness. I let myself do it for me—no captions, no hashtags. A cup of coffee without narrative. A book without posting.
Others Know When It’s Genuine
The best part is that nothing fell apart. My engagement didn’t tank. Actually, it felt warmer. More genuine. People felt the shift, and they related to it. There’s something reassuring about witnessing someone else slow down and give you permission to do the same.
It Is Okay to Take a Break
Burning out doesn’t always happen like you imagine. Sometimes, it’s just the empty feeling you have when doing even the smallest thing becomes like drudgery. If you’re there, you’re not broken.
You don’t require a fresh plan. Chances are, you simply require some kindness for yourself. Perhaps it’s sharing something funny. Perhaps it’s not sharing at all. Whatever it is, it’s okay to take a pause. The internet will remain available to you when you’re prepared to enjoy it again.
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